Jangan Takut Meluahkan Cinta

Cinta adalah perasaan yang sukar dibuang dan disorokkan. When you're in love with someone, you can't hide it. You must have someone that you'll share about your feeling if you're not brave enough to told that person that you really love her/him.

Kebiasaannya, lelaki yang benar-benar ikhlas mencintai seseorang gadis amat sukar untuk meluahkan perasaan mereka terhadap gadis tersebut. Mungkin takut gadis tersebut menjauhi dia. Benar, ada segelintir gadis tidak suka dan tidak dapat menerima sekiranya ada seseorang meluahkan perasaan terhadapnya.

 Namun, percayalah kunci untuk memikat seorang gadis hanyalah KEIKHLASAN ( SINCERITY ) & KEJUJURAN ( HONESTY).

Untuk mendapatkan kunci-kunci tersebut, anda perlu BERANI untuk menempuhinya. Seorang lelaki yang ikhlas dan jujur adalah lebih baik dari seorang lelaki jutawan yang handsome. Hal ini demikian kerana, duit dan rupa boleh dicari dan diubah setiap masa namun keihklasan dan kejujuran sukar dicari. 

Lelaki kebanyakannya suka menyorokkan sesuatu walaupun kepada ibu atau isteri mereka. Mereka selalu berfikir mereka mampu menanganinya sendirian. 

Begitu juga dalam hal meluahkan perasaan cinta. Lelaki biasanya lebih suka untuk menyorokkan perasaan mereka daripada berhadapan dengan gadis tersebut dan luahkan cinta mereka. 

Dengan adanya dua ini dalam diri anda, pasti gadis itu tidak akan menolak. 

Antara cara lain yang boleh saya kongsikan untuk membantu anda memikat gadis idaman anda ialah:

1. Mengingati hari lahir mereka. Gadis suka akan lelaki yang peka dan ingat akan tarikh-tarikh penting mereka kerana sikap ini mampu membuktikan keikhlasan lelaki itu kepadanya. Tidak semestinya perlu menghadiahi mereka hadiah mahal, cukup sekadar ucapan dan sekiranya ada hadiah yang hendak dibelikan, berilah.

2. Beriman. Hal ini memang tidak dapat dinafikan lagi. Gadis memerlukan seorang lelaki yang dapat mengimami mereka dalam segala aspek kehidupan mereka. Tidak perlu lelaki itu seorang Imam masjid atau Bilal tapi cukuplah seseorang yang patuh akan Amar Makruf ( melakukan kebaikan) dan Nahi Munkar ( menjauhi kemungkaran).

3. Bersungguh-sungguh. Sekali ditolak, jangan mudah mengalah! Cuba dan terus cuba tapi janganlah sampai membuatkan mereka serabut dengan anda. Cuba dengan strategi yang berbeza-beza. Namun, sebenarnya langkah yang paling berkesan adalah dengan memohon  bantuan dari yang Esa. Dia Maha Mengetahui yang terbaik.

4. Peka. Seorang lelaki yang benar-benar mencintai gadis tidak pernah ketinggalan mencari maklumat atau info terkini mengenai gadis tersebut walaupun gadis itu jauh di sana. Mereka akan sentiasa mencari jalan untuk stay updated mengenai gadis itu.

5. Ambil peluang. Sekiranya anda dengan gadis itu terpisah kerana kerja atau mungkin kerana anda belajar di tempat lain, ambil peluang untuk bercakap dengannya seandainya bertemu dengannya. Kesungguhan anda untuk bercakap dan menyapanya akan membuatkan dia terharu dan tahu anda tidak pernah melupakannnya walaupun anda berdua terpisah. Buang rasa malu kerana rasa itu mungkin menjerat anda suatu ketika nanti.

Itulah antara yang boleh saya kongsikan. Ingat, biar lelah berusaha daripada anda berputih mata suatu saat nanti. Mungkin selepas anda kehilangan dia barulah anda sedar. Ingat, bukan anda sahaja yang mencintai dia, mungkin beribu-ribu lagi lelaki lain mencintai dia. Anda lambat, anda akan terlepas.

Reasons why Sungmin did not welcomed by Korean fans

http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=ittiban&logNo=220916388433&categoryNo=29&parentCategoryNo=-1&viewDate=&currentPage=&postListTopCurrentPage=&isAfterWrite=true

I'm really sorry for just realized about this yesterday. It's been awhile since I'm thinking why K-ELFs and K-Nets did not welcomed Sungmin back to Super Junior after he finished his mandatory service last 30 December 2016.

I'm really sorry about that.

These are the reasons on why Sungmin oppa does not welcomed by K-ELFs and K-Nets.

First of all, on January 2014, ELFs were surprised by an incident which caused SuJu's leader's family that is his father and both of his grandparents died. This incident caused our leader-nim suffered a lot. Well, because at that time, Leeteuk was completing his military service since he entered in October 2013. And, after awhile, Sungmin asked Leeteuk's approval to get married with Kim Sa Eun through a letter. This is a kind of a bit selfish but I can't say anything on this. Sungmin oppa should considerate about his leader and fans feelings. The incident that killed 3 members of his hyung feeling wasn't a joke.

Secondly, even he didn't get approval to get married in December 2014 from the members of SuJu and also his family, he still do it. This is not because they did not him to get married but it conflicated with Suju's schedule which Super Show 6 started around that and the fellow members of SJ asked him to marry a few months after that. Because of this, SuJu members who had scheduled in Japan for SS6 had to fly back to Korea a day before the marriage and fly back to Japan after the marriage since they had to performed in Japan on 14 December 2014 which a physically training for the members.

Last but not least, Sungmin didn't honest to K-ELFs about his dating rumors and even he denied it.

I'm talking bout this just to cleared everything. I'm not defending K-ELFs and K-Nets but I think I know why they do this. Eventhough that, #sungminout that trends in Korea isn't good and hurting others. Elfs has been suffers enough when Hangeng and Kibum oppa left SJ. We don't wanna loose anyone now even Kangin or other members.

But, Sungmin has upload his apologizes in his naver blog

 http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=ittiban&logNo=220916388433&categoryNo=29&parentCategoryNo=-1&viewDate=&currentPage=&postListTopCurrentPage=&isAfterWrite=true

I think it's now clearly seen that oppa really feel sorry for what he has done. Why don't we forgive him and let's turn on a new leaf for Super Junior and ELF sake ?

Let's make another Sapphire Blue Ocean for their next comeback OK?

However, last night, on 7.00 KST, SuJu made their first fanmeeting after a year hiastus on Lotte Duty Free and thanks to ELFs who were there and make ocean there. There was 6 members last night there and someone told me that Siwon also there half an hour before the event started. Can't wait for their comeback soon.

Cinta itu Unik

Cinta itu hadir tanpa dipinta, tanpa dirancang. Walaupun dengan sekali pandang, kemungkinan untuk jatuh cinta adalah tinggi. Tidak semestinya cantik bak Miss Universe atau handsome seperti Kpop idol, cinta itu sebenarnya unik.

Cinta tidak hadir kerana rupa paras tetapi kerana takdir. Cinta kerana rupa paras sebenarnya nafsu semata-mata. Nafsu yang akhirnya akan menjerat diri sendiri suatu hari nanti. Oleh itu, kecantikan bukanlah faktor utama seseorang itu jatuh cinta pada kita.

Mencintai dan dicintai adalah sesuatu yang sukar dicari kerana kebanyakannya apabila seseorang mencintai si dia, kebiasaannya, si dia mencintai orang lain yang tidak mencintainya. Dalam satu istilah ia dipanggil cinta segi tiga.

Seorang lelaki yang benar-benar mencintai gadis tidak mudah untuk meluahkan perasaannya kepada si gadis sebaliknya, mereka biasanya hanya memberikan isyarat-isyarat cinta kepada si gadis. Contohnya, si lelaki akan memandang, merenung dan menjeling kearah gadis yang diminati. Mereka akan cuba melakukan perkara yang disukai gadis tersebut dengan harapan gadis itu perasan dan mengerti perasaannya. Mereka lebih jelas menunjukkan tanda-tanda cemburu apabila melihat si gadis bergurau senda atau bercakap dengan lelaki lain. Mereka juga tergagap-gagap dan kelu apabila berada dihadapan gadis tersebut namun mereka sedaya upaya menyorokkannya.

Tetapi, hal ini berbeza dengan gadia. Mereka biasanya jelas menyatakan rasa mereka kepada jejaka idaman atau rakan baik mereka. Gadis biasanya tidak mampu menyorokkan rasa cinta mereka kerana mereka takut akan kehilangan. 

Namun, kadang-kala cinta membuat seseorang itu menjadi buta, menjadikan sebuah persahabatan hancur sekiranya tidak dikawal dengan bijak. Mencintai seseorang sebenarnya tidak salah namun harus bijak. Janganlah kita sanggup musnahkan apa yang kita ada hanya kerana ingin mengejar cinta yang belum pasti milik kita. Jadilah insan yang pandai menghargai.

Super Junior responsible for my tears

As an ELF, you must know about this. A very tragic incident that caused our tough leader cried.

On 7th January 2014, Leeteuk or Park Jungsoo rush out from his military service when the officer told him that police found his father and his grandparents died in their house.

On that day, all Super Junior member except Yesung (who is currently serving in military), Ryeowook (scheduled with Sukira) and Shindong (scheduled with Shimshimtapa radio) attended the funeral. All of them looked sad. Eventhough that, Ryeowook didn't spoke too much and they aired lived video feeds about the funeral. Shindong, on the other hand, couldn't continued his radio programme and his place was replaced by VIXX's N and Baek Ah Yeon. All of them grieving after hearing the news. And, on that day, there was no viewable radio for both radio as respecting the King of Kpop's leader.

The other member like Heechul, Kangin,Eunhyuk,Sungmin,Siwon, Kyuhyun and Donghae were there and canceled their work just to be there with their beloved Hyung and gave him moral support.

#StayStrongParkJungsoo also takes the world trends for days as to show support towards him.

Their bondships makes me crying even till now.

Leeteuk who was known as a tough and wise leader couldn't bear his tears anymore. But, with the supports from ELFs and the other members, he finally strong again.

The strength from the best leader also adored by Beast's leader Yoon Doojoon who wrotes in his post,

“The hyung who is always smiling, who greets us with a smile even today without fail. That makes my heart hurt more. With respect, I hope the deceased rest in peace.”

Not just that there's also other kpop idols wish him to be strong like Chansung (2PM), Jo Kwon (2AM),SooHyun (UKiss) and many more.

With many supports from families, SJ members, fans especially ELFs, other idols, his friends and so on, he was able to perform on stage after discharged from military at July 2014  and make a great comeback with Super Junior. Their comeback made another hit after Mamacita, the new comeback album and song was whistled by everyone. 

Ayayayaya makes the song brought SuJu at their peak again after Mr.Simple, Sorry Sorry and Bonamana. They also released special album a couple months after that which also made into worldwide album entitled, This Is Love.

Honestly, this leader are so strong and I really envy him. He struggled a lot in his life but he never show his hardlife to everyone and he kept doing his best especially for his team SuJu who is knows as the most naughty group I think. well, cause in SuJu, all the members are Leeteuk's dongsaengs but Leeteuk once told in his show, My SMT, his principle is listen to his dongsaengs not they listen to him eventhough he is a leader. That's why SJ still here after debuting on 6th November 2005.

Super Junior will make a comeback at Second Half in 2017

2017 gonna be a great year for mostly Kpop fans since most of legends Kpop groups will make comeback this year.

One of the group is Super Junior.

After hiastus for about a year (2016) as a group, Super Junior reported to make a comeback soon after their visual, Choi Siwon finished his mandatory service as a conscripted police on 18 August 2017.

Back then, on 2016, Super Junior make a full group hiastus and went to solo activities and sub-unit, Super Junior K.R.Y activities only after 5 of their members went into military. They are Shindong, Sungmin, Eunhyuk, Donghae and Siwon. And, in October 2016, ELF bids again to Super Junior Ryeowook as he entered as soldier.

On 2016 also, Kangin has to be hiastus because of his DUI case in May 2016.
In short, only 4 members of Super Junior are left in 2016. They are Leeteuk, Heechul, Yesung and Kyuhyun. However, the maknae of this group, Cho Kyuhyun is reported to enlist in this year but the actual date did not confirm yet.

Other to be happy as SuJu are making a comeback this year, this comeback maybe a bit different since the two vocals for this group, Kyuhyun and Ryeowook won't take part for this comeback. It's reported that Kyuhyun will be enlisted before Siwon comeback.

In other hand, ELF has to wait about till 2018 or 2019 to see Super Junior on stage as 11+2 (ot13)

I know, most of ELF wishing to see 13+2 (ot15) but it's a bit impossible since the other two members who had already left SJ. That two are Hangeng and Kibum.

However, there are rumours that saying Hangeng really wish to be on stage again with Super Junior but we can just wait and see. 

Last but not least, this comeback will be handle on Super Junior own label, Label SJ which has given from their company, SM Entertaintment as gift for their 10th anniversary 2 years ago or exactly on 6 November 2015.

Can't wait for it!!!

Looking forward for #SuperJuniorComeback

It's Fine For Me Now 😔

Being hurt I think is a part of my life now. Sometimes, I feel worst sacrifices for nothing. I know what's I'm thinking now is wrong and I shouldn't say that because Allah has promised us that every cloud has silver lining. But. honestly, I'm a normal human, an ordinary human like all of you. We are same, I'm not an angel or a prophet that had been given from Allah a special feel that is pateint with everything no matter how hard it was.

Our prophet Muhammad saw was one of person who was given by Allah high patient level. He always patient for everything done for him and he never fails to smile.

He is a great person to be adore and not too much if I'm saying that I pick him as my idol to achieve my dream.

My dream is to be a pediatrician one day InsyaAllah. I know you must thought, a pediatric is a kinda a doctor, then why not Avicenna is your idol since he is God of Medicine?

Yes, you're right. Avicenna is a medic icon and he is the first who introduced medicine and importance of health care in our life. But, I've got my own reason why I pick my Prophet Muhammad saw as my life idol.

First of all is because his patience towards anything happened to him. He never mad at anyone even that person hurt him so much.
Secondly, I chose him because he never give up. Even at first Islam was introduced to everyone, Islam was against and people in Mecca couldn't accept this and thought it was ridiculous. But, he kept workhard until Islam could be able to spread to whole world like today.

Actually, there are lots of reason why I chose him instead Avicenna.
Choosing him make me feel better and calm and peaceful in my life.
Our prophet is really an incredible person.
I do love him all my whole heart, so are you?

TEARS

Assalamualaikum and good evening to everyone. It's been raining since couples days ago in Malaysia and there are a few places here caught flooded because of the non-stop raining.

I'm not to talk about RAIN or FLOOD but TEARS.

Tears show our true feelings. With tears, you can't anymore hide your sadness. People may know it. In biology, tears are described as antiseptic that can kill microorganism and tears is one of the first body defense mechanism.

Opss, I'm sorry we're far enough now😇.

If you are an ELF, I'm sure you must dropped your tears seeing the video right? Yes, it is so sad and I'm also pretty sure mostly of you ( who are not an ELF) also have your eyes teary isn't?

The video shows that their tears is not because they are sad or being hurt but their tears is to expressed their happiness. That's why, teary eyes not just meaning that someone is sad or hurt. When something good or joyous we got, our eyes also teary. Also, when you are touched by someone or something that meaningful or precious, the tears will drop down by itself. Tears is because of our feelings either sad or happy.

Someone may able to hide his/her sadness or suffers but when it too much, the tears will come down by itself and at that time, we knew that he/she can't bear it anymore.

Bearing your problems isn't a good thing where it may caused tans of stressed for you and may your life wouldn't be so good anymore. That's why, we need to have someone that we knew he/she can take the secret just between both of you. Mostly, moms are where we go and share our problems either we are daughters or sons. Allah has given mom to us where He put in every mom's heart a love that can't be found anywhere or bought. Mom's have their strong instinct about their children. That's why, no matter how far a child and mom. When a child having problem, a mom can feel it.They can feel something wrong and call the child quickly. They won't peace till they saw their children in front of them.

I have lots of things which it proved that mom won't peace if their child is far away from them.

There was once I went camping in the jungle where we have lots of challenging activities that I never try before this. We got hill climbing, diving and many other things. My mom always put a call to me each hour to make sure I'm save. One night, I have to do night walk challenge and I told her that. At first, she forbid me from doing it but, I managed to talk to her until she gave her permission. I'm not allowed to bring along phones during the activity, so I decided to give it to my accompany teacher. I'm finished it too late around 2.00 am and my accompany teacher has went to bed at that time. I decided to take it early in the morning on the next day.

On the next day, I woke up early and get my phone back. What a shocked to see more than 100 miss calls from my mom and my dad which I can tell they didn't sleep at all. I'm quickly call her back and apologize her on what had happened. I asked her why she kept calling then she answered, " I don't know but honestly I can't even close my eyes although just for a second last night. Everything is good right last night," hearing that makes me shocked. Honestly, last night like a nightmare for me and I screamed out lastly during night walk.

This is one of my reasons why I'm sure every mom has been given a great love feeling towards their children.

If the tears are because of happiness it is fine but if it on the other side, you better clear up it immediately before it gives you miserable life on the future.

And the other tear is mom's tear. In Islam and I'm sure in other religion also, we are prohibited from making mom's hurt and cry. We will be a treason child if we make mom's tear drop even a drop.

Mom's has been sacrifices a lot since we are in their tummy until we seen the world. While giving birth, they actually fight with death. They knew that they may die but they still try their best to deliver us to let us see this beautiful world. That's why we couldn't makes them cry although for a second.

I think that's all for now. It's glad to share something with you where I hope it will make you know more about TEARS. Remember, do share your problems or you'll get a misery life. Get a free stress life and you would enjoy your days. Life just once.☺😏